February 1, 2010 12:36 pm  |  55 Comments

Unforgettable Marbury

Good. Bad. Indifferent… Stephon always left his mark.

by Casey Jacobsen

I recently read an article about Stephon Marbury signing a contract to play in China for the remainder of the season and it got me thinking. I hadn’t thought about him much since last summer when his strange behavior over the internet was the talk of the basketball world. Although our basketball Stephon Marburypaths crossed briefly, playing with Stephon Marbury was an experience I will never forget and I can’t say that about a lot of people.

“Starbury” was one of the most polarizing players I’ve ever played with, meaning that as many people admit to being a fan of his, you will find an equal amount of people who hate his game and claim he wasn’t a winner. I liked Stephon. We got along well and I thought his obvious skill and competitiveness helped us win more games than it lost. The problem was his personality was so overwhelming that, when mixed with other players who are also trying to establish themselves as star players (I.e. Marion and Stoudemire), it created a problem in the locker room. Everywhere Stephon played, it seemed like he struggled to share the spotlight with others.

He was the starting point guard for the Phoenix Suns during my rookie year of ‘02-03. He just signed a maximum extension during the summer (four years, $76 million), and was the face of the franchise. I heard some Marbury stories, but I wasn’t sure if they were true or not. I heard he was the most tattooed player in NBA history, that he couldn’t get along with a single coach in his career, and that Kevin Garnett wanted him out of Minnesota. A product of Coney Island, NY, he had an in-your-face aggressive style of basketball that many people loved to watch.

Of all the teammates I’ve had in my career, he was the one I was most nervous about meeting. He scared me a little. I didn’t want him to think I was some dorky white boy from Stanford, but I also didn’t want him to think I was an arrogant punk. After all, I was a rookie and he was Stephon Marbury! What I couldn’t really believe was that he was now my point guard and if I was going to contribute to that team, I had to develop a good relationship with him. That scared me a lot.

The first time I met him was in the training room inside the America West Arena in Phoenix. He was getting a massage on his calf when I went to introduce myself. He looked at me and with a big smile said, “Hey, Rook. It’s good to meet you.” I just stood there like an idiot. He made some joke about my hair and how I looked like a California skater kid but then the trainer joined in and the conversation went elsewhere. I was relieved when it was over, although I’m not sure why I was expecting worse. I built up this imaginary persona of what he would be like, but he was just a normal guy. Well, at least he was that day.

Three other stories came to mind about him….

1) After a game in Madison Square Garden, I saw Steph talking to a very “peculiar” looking girl. When we sat down on the plane that night (Steph sat right in front of me), I asked him who she was. He said it was a friend of his and that she happened to be a successful “adult film actress.” He then reached into his bag and showed me an autographed copy of her latest DVD project. “You want to watch it?” he asked me with a big smile on his face. “No thanks…. I’m good.” Then he put it on his computer and started watching it, as if it were just another episode of 24. That’s the only time I’ve ever seen that on a team flight.

2) During a morning shootaround/walkthough for a home playoff game against the Spurs in 2003, Stephon Marbury was talking with veteran teammate Randy Brown while head coach Frank Johnson was trying to give instruction to the team. I didn’t even hear him talking, but coach obviously did. The rest went as follows:

Frank Johnson: Steph! Is there something more important that you are talking about right now than our game plan? I don’t want to interrupt you. [sarcastically, of course]
Stephon: What??!!

Frank Johnson: I heard you talking…Is there something you want to say? [A little less sarcastic]
Stephon: [He had a crazy look in his eyes as he slowly started to walk toward Coach Johnson] Look… I’m not a little boy! If I want to say something to you, then I will say it right to your face!

The two were inches away from each other at this point, but that was the end of that conversation. You could have heard a pin drop for a solid 5 seconds before Randy Brown stepped between the two and we continued the walkthrough. I don’t know why Stephon was so mad, but I have never heard a player talk to a coach like that and get away with it like Steph did.

3) Leandro Barbosa, a rookie during the ‘03-04 season, was trying his best to adjust to both the NBA and the American culture. It wasn’t easy, obviously, but Stephon really took his role of leader and mentor seriously. He could often be seen explaining plays and pick and role nuances to the young Brazilian. They developed a bond that went beyond the court, and Stephon helped advise him on what car Leandro should buy: a black Escalade, of course. One day, I pull into my usual parking spot under America West Arena for a day of practice and notice group of mechanics who have Leandro’s SUV jacked up and are putting on new 22-inch custom rims. My first thought was, “That’s weird. Why would Leandro have the rims put on here? Why wouldn’t he just go to the auto shop after practice?” When I got to the locker room, I said something about it to our strength coach, who then told me Stephon hired those guys to do it as a surprise gift to Leandro. Most of the team waited in the parking garage to see the look on LB’s face. He was so happy to get the gift, but it was Stephon who was most excited. It was a genuine moment of generosity, and it wasn’t the only one I saw from him.

You may have your own opinion about the kind of person Stephon Marbury is. You can base that opinion on his disturbing behavior that he broadcasted live online last summer, or you can base it on the fact that he donated more than $500,000 to victims of Hurricane Katrina, and he has been awarded The Sporting News “Good Guys in Sports” three times for his philanthropy. You may also have your own opinion about the kind of basketball player he is. You can make that decision based on his 19 ppg average over his 13-year NBA career, including two All-Star selections, or you can base it upon the fact that he never made it out of the first round of the Playoffs until last season with Boston. I’ll let you decide.

One thing I do know: Stephon doesn’t care what you think about him. He just doesn’t want to be forgotten. For me, that would be impossible.

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  • Shey Posted: Feb.1 at 12:51 pm
    Great article, well done.

  • Jas Posted: Feb.1 at 12:54 pm
    Interesting read.

  • candice Posted: Feb.1 at 1:01 pm
    he truly is a great guy..one of the best humanitarians i can think of..everyone has a past&make mistakes..he made them but also lets us know that its okay..you CAN still be successful&bless others no matter if everyone knows about it or not..there have been a lot of things he has done for others, he doesn’t boast about..like a few other people..most players&people do things to get recognized by others and a pat on the back..STEPHON doesn’t care for that&that makes him amazing…he is influencing others..being one if the first NBA player to make affordable clothing&shoes for young men who want the stylish clothing but parents cant afford for them to have them…that’s amazing to be able to say hey my shoe is only a few bucks..you dot have to sell drugs or steal to have some great kicks..he is not perfect&like i said we all make mistakes..he has grown from it&hopefully china will be the fresh start he needed..because he is a outstanding defender&player..

  • candice Posted: Feb.1 at 1:02 pm
    great article on him..thank you for your in depth knowledge on him=)

  • Ben Osborne Posted: Feb.1 at 1:31 pm
    Great as always. Thanks Casey!

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  • Eric Woodyard Posted: Feb.1 at 1:37 pm
    Great blog! I met Steph in Flint, Michigan a few years ago at Steve & Barry’s when he was promoting his sneaker…he was a really cool guy and he interacted with everyone…he gets a bad wrap from the media tho

  • Rich Posted: Feb.1 at 1:43 pm
    Great piece, Casey. Good to see a balanced, fair-minded article on Steph from a former teammate, rather than the usual SLAM puff piece or the anti-Steph diatribes we get elsewhere.

  • AlbertBarr Posted: Feb.1 at 1:49 pm
    Good write-up…hopefully Steph has a good run in China.

  • Bigi Posted: Feb.1 at 1:52 pm
    Great stuff! “That’s the only time I’ve ever seen that on a team flight.” That’s bullsh*t tough :)

  • T-Money Posted: Feb.1 at 2:28 pm
    Interesting. Steph’s behavior is obviously a little erratic but there’s no doubt in my mind that he has a good heart.

  • CSP8 Posted: Feb.1 at 2:44 pm
    That China debut didnt go too well. Tre Kelley just put up 34 point on him last night, hopefully he was just rusty.

  • Bryan Posted: Feb.1 at 2:46 pm
    Very good stuff.

  • Allenp Posted: Feb.1 at 2:59 pm
    See, this is what I’m talking about. A balanced view of one of the most polarizing figures in basketball history. Now if you can do this, why can’t 90 percent of the media?
    Why?
    Steph ain’t perfect, but he ain’t the devil either. He’s a man, with man-sized issues and strengths. Thanks for the insight.
    And I would imagine that watching porn on team planes was pretty common. I’m not shocked at all.

  • Allenp Posted: Feb.1 at 3:00 pm
    I sent a long post praising this piece, but it seems like it won’t go through. Anyway, really good job presenting some interesting anecdotes about a complicated dude.

  • Danbury Posted: Feb.1 at 3:24 pm
    Steph was the truth, forget a Paul Pierce.

  • GotHandles? Posted: Feb.1 at 3:32 pm
    Great writing, Casey. Must have a solid writing requirement at Stanford.

  • Tarzan Cooper Posted: Feb.1 at 3:34 pm
    that was great. i wonder why sepn never talked about his surprise gift to leandro. steph is an imperfect good guy.

  • doyouwantmore Posted: Feb.1 at 4:45 pm
    So he’s a good guy under a lot of bad influences. Also, not the sharpest tool in the shed.

  • Allenp Posted: Feb.1 at 4:49 pm
    DoYouWantMore
    Marbury has never struck me as stupid. Egotistical, sheltered and selfish, yes, but not stupid.
    He is pretty smart and understands people’s motivations fairly well from what I’ve seen.
    Just because you’re smart doesn’t mean you make good decisions. That’s a misconception.

  • nick Posted: Feb.1 at 5:00 pm
    fantastic article… love it

  • Jer boi Posted: Feb.1 at 5:21 pm
    Awesome article they linked to it on hoopshype

  • “Unforgetable,that’s what you are,
    ….that’s why darling it’s incredible,all our love so unforgetable….”(SINATRA)
    yeap, a true IMORTAL !!!! We will never forget,how could we ever….
    STARBURRY!!! IVERSON!!!! STAR…..(hey,you know the rest)

  • NJ4Life Posted: Feb.1 at 6:05 pm
    For all I care, Steph could have single handedly rescued and old woman and her cat from the 35th story of a burning building and it STILL wouldn’t change the fact that the guy is a piece of *@!$.

  • Edoardo Posted: Feb.1 at 6:05 pm
    Great Article…it’s always very interesting read about cats like steph from someone who really knows him, as a person and as a player. Thanks!

  • Lang Whitaker Posted: Feb.1 at 6:49 pm
    Ahem.

  • Jon Posted: Feb.1 at 7:44 pm
    Really glad to see some Steph love!

  • Blue Posted: Feb.1 at 8:14 pm
    Excellent Article! It brought tears to my eyes when he couldn’t even say how much he was donating to the Hurricane Katrina Relief because he was crying so much. One day people will understand that he is just like everyone else except his life is broadcast nationally for all to see, pick apart and “evaluate”.

  • don Posted: Feb.1 at 9:47 pm
    wow, i didn’t know steph mentored LB. cooL.

  • knikknucker Posted: Feb.1 at 10:52 pm
    The knicks gave up on him for….(drumroll please)
    Chris Duhon ta daa

  • Hoodsnake Posted: Feb.2 at 12:16 am
    Wheres all the heartwarming JR Rider stories at?

  • Chukaz Posted: Feb.2 at 1:45 am
    @hoodsnake, a better question is where is JR Rider at?

  • chintao Posted: Feb.2 at 2:56 am
    Thanks for that sorely-needed perspective. Nicely written, as well.

  • chintao Posted: Feb.2 at 3:08 am
    As CSP8 said, Marbury did not cover himself in glory defensively when he finally made it onto the court in China Sunday night. Stat-wise, he had 15 points, 8 assists, 4 steals, and 4 rebounds in 28 minutes. Steph was 7-17 from the field, including 0-6 from downtown. He fouled-out, and his team lost by one point. Steph’s new teammate, Maurice Taylor, contributed 27 points and 10 rebounds.

  • fatjeansince'88 Posted: Feb.2 at 4:17 am
    I met JR Rider October 2009 at the Scarface/Goodie Mob concert at House of Blues in Dallas. No heartwarming stories. He seems like a real stand up guy tho.

  • fatjeansince'88 Posted: Feb.2 at 4:22 am
    I met jr rider october 2009 at the scarface/goodie mob concert at the house of blues in dallas. no heartwarming stories, he is a funny guy tho.

  • fatjeansince'88 Posted: Feb.2 at 4:24 am
    I met JR Rider October 2009 in dallas at the scarface/goodie mob concert in the house of blues. no heartwarming stories, he’s a funny guy tho.

  • The Hoopistani Posted: Feb.2 at 5:02 am
    i loved casey’s “inflight entertainment” story!!! hahahahah

  • azkahayan Posted: Feb.2 at 6:23 am
    Well, you can tell he’s a nice guy from the starbury price tag.

  • k.a. Posted: Feb.2 at 9:10 am
    Dope piece, case. You maybe a good writer as you are a baller. And maybe as good of a person with that kind of objectivity. I like how you described skanky looking as peculiar. Starbury: never forget. Lang feeling dissed made me LOL too.

  • Darksaber Posted: Feb.2 at 9:16 am
    Hmm, pretty sure he wasn’t the only Nba player to pop in that kind of DVD into his laptop on team flights, Artest, Rodman, Oak and quite a few others strike me as being indifferent enough to pull that move.
    Thanks for the insight on your experiences with Marbury, Casey, that was an interesting post.

  • Paul A Posted: Feb.2 at 9:59 am
    I’m not that impressed by Steph. It’s great that he is charitable, but there are a bunch of NBA players who contributed to Katrina charities, and a bunch who are far more active and charitable across the board than Stephon is/was. He gets a lot of praise for the low priced sneaker thing, but I’ve never thought that to be an admirable venture on his part. He doesn’t really care about providing low priced sneakers as much as he did about making money off of them–and off the backs of the Chinese laborers who get crap wages to produce them. Th elow priced thing was just a marketing gimmick. If Steph really wanted to make a difference he would have opened a sneaker factory somewhere in America where people could use decent jobs–like his hometown Coney Island, perhaps. Just sayin’

  • Tzvi Twersky Posted: Feb.2 at 2:41 pm
    Love it. That last story with the 22s says a lot to me. Essentially, Steph is all heart.

  • Zach Smart Posted: Feb.2 at 4:09 pm
    Steph is the same dude he was 15 years ago. He’ll tell you nobody’s better than him without a flinch, demand his respect, and then do something like start his $15 sneakers to help inner-city kids. He’s the dude that was telling seniors on his Lincoln team his freshman year that they’re never going to make it and that he’s the original Coney Island dundadda. I remember how emotional he was in the aftermath of Katrina when he was crying hysterically during a speech and had to be helped to his seat. All heart, for sure. But everybody wants to talk about his bizarre online tv show when he was clearly emulating a maniac, the moment when he labeled his wife his better ho on the show, his run-ins with coaches, the get-in-the-truck incident outside of Souz.. A lot of this other stuff is forgotten about

  • luv2ball Posted: Feb.2 at 4:13 pm
    Does anyone besides me notice that the “seemingly” crazy NBA players that have the biggest hearts are from NYC? (Ron-Ron, Steph)

  • Zach Smart Posted: Feb.2 at 4:37 pm
    great work, casey

  • DRE Posted: Feb.3 at 2:32 am
    Keep them coming Casey, I will keep on reading them, With all the knowledge you should be writting a book man, Your skills are impressive kid. As for Marbury, He’s got my respect.

  • The Philosopher Posted: Feb.3 at 3:04 am
    Marbury is the Michael Jackson of the NBA

  • therighttoremainsalient Posted: Feb.3 at 7:35 am
    so do you skate?

  • kab Posted: Feb.3 at 9:53 am
    marbury is one of the number of nba ballers on the down low

  • Fontaine Posted: Feb.3 at 11:46 am
    Starbury was always my man, going back to the college battle days between him and Iverson at the Garden (Ga Tech vs Georgetown). I especially loved it when he came to the Knix (even renewed my MSG channel subscription!). I think he’s often misunderstood, but alot of that is due to him as well (eating vaseline? c’mon…) Maybe the China move will work out for him. Hopefully one day he’ll get grounded and come back to the NBA.

  • In-N-Out Lucas Posted: Feb.3 at 9:03 pm
    Casey writes the best articles, no doubt.
    Yet another great piece on the infamous Starbury. Those stories were very interesting…

  • chintao Posted: Feb.4 at 5:02 am
    Starbury had 15 points, 15 assists, and 3 steals in 42 minutes last night. On the negative side, he shot 4-18 (1-7 on “three’s”) and his team lost again. I’d have to put this one on the refs, though. Maurice Taylor only played 28 minutes, due to foul trouble. My main man and ace Kobe-hater, Smush Parker, had 13 points and 7 assists in 40 minutes of play for the victors.

  • chintao Posted: Feb.9 at 5:25 am
    February 5 - The bad news is that Marbury’s team lost again. The good news was that Steph seems to be finding his game. He had 35 points, 9 assists, and 9 rebounds in 36 minutes. He shot 10-21 from the field, including 2-4 from the land of three.

  • chintao Posted: Feb.9 at 5:28 am
    February 7 - Stephon Marbury finally got his first win on Chinese soil. To do it, he once again put the team on his back. 34 points, 7 assists, and 6 rebounds highlighted his effort. Starbury shot 11-17, including a scorching 5-7 from behind the arc.

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