Sunday, June 20th, 2010 at 3:07 pm  |  142 responses

A Day In The Life Of A “Kobe Lover”

Reflections from June 17th, 2010.

by Bryan Crawford / @_BryanCrawford 

I only saw the first half of Game 7 before I fell into a fatigue and food induced coma. A little more than 15 hours prior to tip-off, my wife gave birth to our second daughter. That was at 4:56 AM. I stayed awake the rest of the day doing a lot of running around and taking care of a few things and by the time I got back to the hospital with wifey and our baby we’d named Gianna (long story but yeah, yeah…I know) later that evening, I was completely worn out. I walked around the corner and ordered some food from TGI Fridays and took it back to my wife’s room. I watched the first half as I ate, and as I lay down from my steak and shrimp “itis” during the halftime show, I looked over at my wife and said, “I’m not going to make it through this game.” Prophetically, ten minutes later I was out. The events of the day had finally caught up with me.

I woke up around 3 AM. The room was dark and the TV was off. I thought about the game and how I had no idea who’d won. I knew that all I had to do was look at my phone to find out but the problem was, I was afraid to.

Before I went to sleep the Lakers in general and Kobe Bryant in particular were playing horriblyLakers/Celtics 2010 and I had an eerie feeling that Boston was going to win the game. For some reason, the first thing I thought about as I lie in that dark hospital room debating on whether I even wanted to pick up my phone or not were some of the SLAMonline commenters. Especially the ones who are Lakers haters, Kobe haters, and bandwagon Boston fans that only jumped on because they wanted to see the C’s knock off Kobe and LA. Because I’m familiar with most of the Notorious H.A.T.E.R.S. on the site, if Boston won I thought about how happy they were going to be and how much crap they were going to talk and how I was going to have to sit and read their remarks in infuriating silence, unable to say anything.

What could I have said that would’ve mattered to them anyway?

I’d already seen many of them give LeBron James a pass for being eliminated from the postseason yet again (his team sucked, his elbow was hurt, etc.), and I saw that no matter what happens, Bron Bron can do no wrong in the eyes of some, and that’s all good. But I also knew that Kobe would get no such love.

I knew that he wouldn’t be given the same benefit of the doubt (bad ankle, bad knee that needed draining DURING the playoffs, broken finger on his shooting hand, etc.) had he come up short. I knew that he would be considered a failure in the eyes of those who love to hate on him for not being able to beat Boston and deliver a championship. I knew that people would use a second loss to the Celtics in the Finals as a valid reason to openly question not only his legacy, but how good of a player he really is. For people like myself who have been waving the Kobe flag on this site all season, I knew that there would be nothing that I could add in his defense that would amount to much of anything…and I knew that some people would delight in it.

As I thought about all of these things, I got kind of bummed out.

I’ve been attacked by keyboard gangsters more times than I can count this season when it comes to defending Kobe Bryant. I shouldn’t even have to defend him at all and it’s gotten to the point of being annoying that people would even dare argue against his greatness, especially when the evidence of it is all there. But they still do, while using the most ridiculous of arguments.

Once again I watched all season long as the debate between who was better, Kobe or LeBron, raged on. By the time Cleveland got eliminated and the NBA Finals rolled around, with Kobe on the verge of winning his fifth NBA Championship the argument shifted and became who was better, Kobe or Michael Jordan? Both are used in an attempt to try and diminish Kobe as a player, and both are just straight up dumb to begin with.

Kobe Bryant is better than LeBron James at this point.

Even if you’re one of those people who subscribe to the theory that says Shaquille O’Neal deserves all of the credit for LA’s three-peat and Kobe deserves none (another diminishing argument), you can’t argue the fact that he’s lead “his” Lakers squad to the last three championship rounds and walked away with two rings. LeBron may have had one of the best highlight filled and statistical seasons we’ve ever seen and he’s more than deserving of credit and praise for it, but until he delivers a few championships to whichever team he decides to play for after “LeBron 1strolls around in a couple of weeks, saying he’s the better player is absolutely absurd and that’s not meant to be a diss.

Highlights are fun and regular season statistics are cool, but they mean nothing in basketball’s bigger picture. If they did, Wilt Chamberlain would be considered the better player between himself and Bill Russell, but he’s not. At the end of the day whether you agree or disagree, the bottom line is, the ring is the thing by which all players are–and shoud be–judged.

As far as comparing Kobe to MJ, well that’s just crazy talk.

In the modern era of basketball, Michael Jordan has no equal. But Kobe Bryant is pretty damn close. LeBron gets compared with Kobe who then gets compared with Michael Jordan. The basketball royal hierarchy has been set in that order (no disrespect to guys like Magic Johnson, Larry Bird, or other past NBA greats). The best that LeBron can hope to do at this point is pass Kobe on the list. And unless he goes off on some sort of miraculous championship winning streak that changes the landscape of the argument entirely, Kobe will always be the player he’ll be behind and the one he’ll be measured against in basketball’s “Holy Trinity.”

NBA Champ - Finals MVPSo as I finally got up enough nerve to look at my phone, I saw that there were five missed calls, two voice mails, eight emails, and twelve text messages. I usually don’t but for some reason I checked my texts first. The last one I got (the one I read first) was from my 11-year-old son that lives in Florida. It read: “Lakers won the finals.” It didn’t even matter to me that he sent it at 11:21 CST, well past his bed time. I just sat back, smiled, and thought to myself, “Congrats, Bean. Mission accomplished.”

Later that day as I read the comments on SLAMonline regarding the Lakers winning the championship, not surprisingly, people still found reasons to not give Kobe his due. It’s all good though, he’s always going to be held to impossible standards that no one can live up to anyway.

So whether you feel his teammates bailing him out in Game 7 (after he’s bailed them out so many times already) is evidence of how bad he really sucks, or if grabbing 15 rebounds was less important to you than his six for who-really-cares shooting numbers, it doesn’t matter. It’s in the books now. Kobe Bryant, five-time NBA Champion.

Hate on, haters.

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  • Dre

    Byan one thing you will realize is the one thing about excuses is because they are excuses it doesn’t stop them from being true. If you are on your way to work and your car breaks down, and you are late… it’s an excuse but it’s true. They had more talent then they did 4 years ago but the landscape of the league had changed did the Celtics have the big 4? Was Orlando structured the same was Atlanta the same team, what about the West. That is a piss poor reason, that is an emotion driven reason. I always analyze the whole situation, I rarely use emotional babble. You will never say a bad word about Kobe like he is paying you or something. I have been critical of Lebron since he came to the league however it doesn’t stop him from now being the best. I have enough sense to know that the best player is not always on the best team.

  • Dre

    Philosopher … that is true. Kobe is a champion but Lebron is the best player in the world period.

  • http://www.slamonline.com J

    bryan crawford. first i agree we have talent but poorly coached. Honestly coming to this playoffs i believed that we had our best chance ever, but i do have doubts because of 1. coaching 2. Mo williams.. but as a fan ive put that aside because i have faith, but then we know what happened. my doubts were true. And the least expected, HUGE part of the failure is with lebron sucking the life.. Honestly I could live with jamison being 2nd option as long as there were plays set for him, but there was NONE and even you know that. As you said were capable of making the finals, i believe too. so having chances like that do you expect me to say that “were capable but were not gonna win?” we came up short, yes. But there a reason. were NOT making excuses (at least for me.) why cant you accept that? Sir, i know your smarter than that.

  • http://www.slamonline.com J

    Bryan crawford: Im not trying to start fire like you with t-money, but i can’t understand, yes were better than the 07 team we had but did the league stayed the same since?

  • http://www.slamonline.com J

    and honestly im not in that “this team is built for orlando. or boston or l.a.” That’s b*llsh*t because if were gonna be like that someone will beat us every year. And i NEVER EVER said that “lebron is king or kobe sucks, kobe this and that so were gonna win..” oh and i think you missed it up there in the previous comment but i said congrats on your second child.

  • http://www.slamonline.com J

    Even you, have completely agreed that were poorly coached, and even knew the flaws that we had that resulted elimination.. but if someone stated that as one of the reasons, you say that were just making excuses? Why?

  • http://www.slamonline.com J

    MJ>Kobe>LeBron. at this point in time. that could change? who knows?

  • http://slamonline.com Bryan Crawford

    My bad Dre. I should know better than to argue about basketball with an ex-pro. After all, you did play for Panathinaikos in the late 90′s when you were 24, right? I mean seriously, how could my knowledge of basketball ever measure up to yours? I’m just a writer. Please forgive my ignorance. By the way, what’s your real name? Maybe I’m overlooking you when I browse through their rosters going back to the 50s. Or maybe something happened and your name for whatever reason isn’t showing up, but surely you had to have played elsewhere, right? What about college, where did you play? High school? I only ask because I have this weird thing about fact checking people who claim to be ex-players. Especially the ones who’ve said that they played professionally. I mean, you can never be too careful, right? After all, this is the internet and people can be whoever they want to be on here and I just don’t want to be disrespectful of anyone that’s been paid to play before. Get back to me…

  • http://Slamonline.com Bryan Crawford

    J…I respect you because you’re a Cavs fan, not someone on the bandwagon. Not only that, but you also seem to be logical as well. Also, thanks for the congrats. The flaws of the Cavs are very easy to point out, but there is no excuse for not getting past the 2nd round. Last year’s squad went to the ECF and on paper, this year’s squad was much better. People are blaming the players when the responsibility for this season’s failure falls squarely on Mike Brown. This team won 60+ games, so in my opinion they were very good. Championship caliber, no. Good enough to get there, I’d say yes. Good enough to beat Boston, no doubt. Yeah the league has changed, but the Cavs made changes like everyone else. Personnel wasn’t the issue this year, Mike Brown was.

  • Dre

    Bryan, why the hell do you keep saying that I was referring to the NBA players. Dude you are way too sensitive and I have been nothing but respectful to you man.

  • Dre

    You can fact find… I provided a user with my identity and where I played. I just got hired on the coaching staff full time at Bishop O’Connell friday and I coach Team Takeover AAU one of the top AAU programs in the country… that is because of my knowledge of basketball. I guess you haven’t looked good enough… you can catch felling all you want but I stated my opinion without catching feeling like a little girl and never disrespected you. Look harder son cause I would not lie about something that could be easily checked. I always told people to chill who disrespected you and I spoke well about your articles. If you want to know who I am call my bluff and leave your phone number and I will tell you who I am. I will call you.. believe that.

  • Dre

    I got proof that I played… drop yo digits and get back at me. LOL

  • Dre

    that is feeling… but i’m waiting.

  • http://Slamonline.com Bryan Crawford

    Leave my phone number in a comment section…now there’s a good idea, Dre. I’ll respectfully decline though. Your name should do just fine. I’ll take it from there.

  • The Philosopher

    Again… The King is THE BEST player in the entire world.

  • Asif

    I officially love you, Mr. Bryan Crawford

  • http://slamonline.com tina

    Actually DWade is THE BEST player in the world right now. Lebron is the best physical player, but best player belongs to DWade.

  • The Philosopher

    @tina: LONG… LIVE… THE KING.

  • Dre

    I will give u my e-mail send to me and call. the_wb91@hotmail.com. In the meanwhile you can bless us with your basketball creds. I got mine… do you have yours? I’m waiting like Jodeci.

  • Dre

    insert the Jeopardy music here.

  • Dre

    my phone number will be available for u when u e-mail me and yours will do fine. I don’t do internet gangster… I will answer any question you got so shoot me an e-mail.

  • http://slamonline.com Bryan Crawford

    Dre, my basketball creds aren’t up for debate here. Besides, unlike you, I never said that I had any to begin with. I’m just a dude that’s been following basketball for 25+ years, I write a little bit, and I hoop as much as I can, when I can. That’s all. I don’t claim to be any more than that. Never have.

  • james

    lmao @dre sorry man but theres one time that ive learned from my 4 yrs of playin high school basketball is that it doesnt take much baskeetball knowledge to coach an aau team.

  • Corbin

    I think what people get mixed up about Kobe is his game and his persona. Kobe is the best player in the game, period. I think his persona rubs a lot of people the wrong way but should never diminish the man’s talent and will because he puts the work in despite injuries and the like. I think it’s kind of sad Dwayne Wade has been left out of this conversation. I love LeBron, but Dwayne in my opinion is better than him and I think can be better than Kobe. After that title he has not had the supporting cast. His team is horrible top to bottom. Cleveland hand an impressive season, but Mo Williams decided to go ghost in the playoffs. Bryan I agree and disagree about the Cavs. Yes they had a lot of talent, but I think it comes down to key positions. Rondo dominated Mo on both ends of the floor and the PG spot is critical. I think the Cavs org has ran on the assumption that they did not need a pure PG because of Bron’s gifts with the ball and that bit them in the butt this year.

  • james

    *thing

    and bryan is right everybody was praising the cavs as the best team in regular season n then when they lose in the playoffs all of a sudden they dont have a squad. yeah good excuse…but the cavs had a very good team and there coach wasnt able to utilize any successful strategy to get over the celtics besides give LeBron the ball and hope that he has 50 pts 50 assists n 50 rebounds.

  • Dre

    Lol@ James but I coach one of the best AAU teams in the country. Now a days anybody can have a team but they came an got me. I coach in one the most powerful high school conference in the country in the WCAC. I just got hired on the coaching staff as an one on one trainer and coach at O’Connell. Probably cause I do a little bit of somethig u think.

  • Dre

    Bryan u got it all wrong bro, I think what u said gives u plenty of credibility. I agreed with u about how just because a player plays or played on the NBA it doesn’t mean they know everything. However I don’t ink u can play in the league or be a legend and not have a certain amount of knowledge. I don’t think it’s fair to discredit them just because they share a different opinion. I have been a big supporter of u up here and u r my favorite write up here. I enjoy your articles. If u would like to know my name shoot me an e-mail and we can talk I will give u my number. We can rap ball in between u dealing with the baby. Lol. I will tell u my whole story. I know I have to have total knee replacement surgery in my mid 30′s cause of basketball and I don’t regret a thing my brotha. u have creds bro, just like I do, I don’t think we generally have the cred of a legend. Much love to u B. Can’t want to hear from u.

  • Dre

    Ohhh yeah B, u definitely need to hit me up. If u do any high school b-ball articles I am going to give u the scoop on a up and comer man… seriously! All I got to say is wow!

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  • gman300

    thiis was a great post, lol @ “not surprisingly, people still found reasons to not give Kobe his due” it is true. he could have scored 45 in a hit the buzzer beater n there would be hate. on the other note, lebron gets too many passes for not performing. donovan mcnabb didnt get this many passes.

  • Alan

    LeBron – Back to back regular season MVPs.
    Kobe – Back to back Finals MVPs.

    Hmmm, who’s better?

  • http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:OzhW3M1GBSKkgM:http://fashionsensei.files.wordpress.com/2008/02/jackie-moon.jpg Jackie Moon

    RON HARPER AT FANHOUSE

    Outside of coach Phil Jackson, whose sideline reign spans all 11 championships that Jordan and Bryant have won, Harper remains the foremost authority — the bridge — on any comparisons between two of the greatest players in league history.

    “I tell people that they are two great, great players, and Michael remains the best of all time, but Kobe now is right there next to him. He’s standing right next to him. He’s the closest thing we’ve ever had to Jordan. There is no one else even in the ballpark,” Harper told FanHouse Tuesday from his home in New Jersey. “Kobe is hands down the best player in the game today.”

  • http://Slamonline.com Bryan Crawford

    @Jackie Moon…I wonder how long it took Ron to get that out.

  • The Philosopher

    @Jackie Moon: Ron Harper is a scout?

  • T-RiLL

    This is getting ridiculous for real! Between Kobe Bryant and LeBron James…Kobe Bryant is by far the better player and more knowledgable of the game, he just understands it far more than any other player in the game today. And the whole Michael Jordan and Kobe Bryant debate is obviously a hot topic and here is what I think, all in all it doesn’t matter cause you can never actually prove it…having said that I have to say Kobe may still be chasing Michael for the time being but not by a large margin, he may very well pass him up really soon!

  • Dre

    I was thinking the same thing B… we are so wrong.

  • Dre

    It’s always a great debate… anyone who says that Kobe is far ahad of Lebron is a crack addict just like anyone who says Lebron is far ahead of Kobe is FOS. WE can say some we have all made good arguments for both along with some NBA greats. It is a great debate that will go on for a while. Opinions are like you know what guys.

  • jaws_theme_swimming

    In the ’98 finals game 6 MJ missed 20 shots… In game 2 he missed 19… He just took 33 in game 2, and 35 in game 6. Sure Kobe missed 18 in game 7, but it wouldn’t have been a big deal if it had been game 1 or 2. The point is, he found ways to score despite that, and pulled down 15 rebounds. He got his team the ring.

    Oh, and remember when Michael Jordan pushed off Byron Russell? Yeah, Michael Jordan wasn’t invincibly perfect either.

  • Dre

    Naw but MJ stepped up when the biggest games were on the line.

  • Marie

    Kobe deserves credit for what he is doing and people that don’t want to give it to him are just plain idiotic. I have to admit I am a lifelong Lakers fan and a fellow Kobe Bryant lover. But even if I was not a Kobe fan I would at least have the courage and intelligence to give him the proper respect he deserves as a player. I spend a lot of my time in pretty heated discussions with co-workers, friends, family, etc. defending Kobe’s greatness and I actually enjoy it. I love being in the minority. I walked into work the day after the Lakers won with the biggest smile on my face and not a word had to be said. I love the fact that Kobe keeps on delivering championship after championship. I love the fact that he puts it all on the line everyday and inspires me to do the same. Yes, sometimes his stats aren’t the best but the fact that he still finds a way to impact the game and its outcome is a true testament to his greatness. I am amused that people who are barely out of their diapers are all of sudden Michael Jordan experts and don’t realize that he didn’t walk on water. MJ had his day just like the greats that came before him but this is Kobe’s time. His longevity and championships cannot be disputed. And just one more thing for those of you who have already crowned someone else, the book on Kobe Bean Bryant is far from finished.

  • jaws_theme_swimming

    I wasn’t saying MJ didn’t step up, but Kobe did too.

  • http://sarahng.tumblr.com Sarah

    thumbs up to the great piece, thoroughly enjoyed it.

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