Sunday, June 20th, 2010 at 3:07 pm  |  142 responses

A Day In The Life Of A “Kobe Lover”

Reflections from June 17th, 2010.

by Bryan Crawford / @_BryanCrawford 

I only saw the first half of Game 7 before I fell into a fatigue and food induced coma. A little more than 15 hours prior to tip-off, my wife gave birth to our second daughter. That was at 4:56 AM. I stayed awake the rest of the day doing a lot of running around and taking care of a few things and by the time I got back to the hospital with wifey and our baby we’d named Gianna (long story but yeah, yeah…I know) later that evening, I was completely worn out. I walked around the corner and ordered some food from TGI Fridays and took it back to my wife’s room. I watched the first half as I ate, and as I lay down from my steak and shrimp “itis” during the halftime show, I looked over at my wife and said, “I’m not going to make it through this game.” Prophetically, ten minutes later I was out. The events of the day had finally caught up with me.

I woke up around 3 AM. The room was dark and the TV was off. I thought about the game and how I had no idea who’d won. I knew that all I had to do was look at my phone to find out but the problem was, I was afraid to.

Before I went to sleep the Lakers in general and Kobe Bryant in particular were playing horriblyLakers/Celtics 2010 and I had an eerie feeling that Boston was going to win the game. For some reason, the first thing I thought about as I lie in that dark hospital room debating on whether I even wanted to pick up my phone or not were some of the SLAMonline commenters. Especially the ones who are Lakers haters, Kobe haters, and bandwagon Boston fans that only jumped on because they wanted to see the C’s knock off Kobe and LA. Because I’m familiar with most of the Notorious H.A.T.E.R.S. on the site, if Boston won I thought about how happy they were going to be and how much crap they were going to talk and how I was going to have to sit and read their remarks in infuriating silence, unable to say anything.

What could I have said that would’ve mattered to them anyway?

I’d already seen many of them give LeBron James a pass for being eliminated from the postseason yet again (his team sucked, his elbow was hurt, etc.), and I saw that no matter what happens, Bron Bron can do no wrong in the eyes of some, and that’s all good. But I also knew that Kobe would get no such love.

I knew that he wouldn’t be given the same benefit of the doubt (bad ankle, bad knee that needed draining DURING the playoffs, broken finger on his shooting hand, etc.) had he come up short. I knew that he would be considered a failure in the eyes of those who love to hate on him for not being able to beat Boston and deliver a championship. I knew that people would use a second loss to the Celtics in the Finals as a valid reason to openly question not only his legacy, but how good of a player he really is. For people like myself who have been waving the Kobe flag on this site all season, I knew that there would be nothing that I could add in his defense that would amount to much of anything…and I knew that some people would delight in it.

As I thought about all of these things, I got kind of bummed out.

I’ve been attacked by keyboard gangsters more times than I can count this season when it comes to defending Kobe Bryant. I shouldn’t even have to defend him at all and it’s gotten to the point of being annoying that people would even dare argue against his greatness, especially when the evidence of it is all there. But they still do, while using the most ridiculous of arguments.

Once again I watched all season long as the debate between who was better, Kobe or LeBron, raged on. By the time Cleveland got eliminated and the NBA Finals rolled around, with Kobe on the verge of winning his fifth NBA Championship the argument shifted and became who was better, Kobe or Michael Jordan? Both are used in an attempt to try and diminish Kobe as a player, and both are just straight up dumb to begin with.

Kobe Bryant is better than LeBron James at this point.

Even if you’re one of those people who subscribe to the theory that says Shaquille O’Neal deserves all of the credit for LA’s three-peat and Kobe deserves none (another diminishing argument), you can’t argue the fact that he’s lead “his” Lakers squad to the last three championship rounds and walked away with two rings. LeBron may have had one of the best highlight filled and statistical seasons we’ve ever seen and he’s more than deserving of credit and praise for it, but until he delivers a few championships to whichever team he decides to play for after “LeBron 1strolls around in a couple of weeks, saying he’s the better player is absolutely absurd and that’s not meant to be a diss.

Highlights are fun and regular season statistics are cool, but they mean nothing in basketball’s bigger picture. If they did, Wilt Chamberlain would be considered the better player between himself and Bill Russell, but he’s not. At the end of the day whether you agree or disagree, the bottom line is, the ring is the thing by which all players are–and shoud be–judged.

As far as comparing Kobe to MJ, well that’s just crazy talk.

In the modern era of basketball, Michael Jordan has no equal. But Kobe Bryant is pretty damn close. LeBron gets compared with Kobe who then gets compared with Michael Jordan. The basketball royal hierarchy has been set in that order (no disrespect to guys like Magic Johnson, Larry Bird, or other past NBA greats). The best that LeBron can hope to do at this point is pass Kobe on the list. And unless he goes off on some sort of miraculous championship winning streak that changes the landscape of the argument entirely, Kobe will always be the player he’ll be behind and the one he’ll be measured against in basketball’s “Holy Trinity.”

NBA Champ - Finals MVPSo as I finally got up enough nerve to look at my phone, I saw that there were five missed calls, two voice mails, eight emails, and twelve text messages. I usually don’t but for some reason I checked my texts first. The last one I got (the one I read first) was from my 11-year-old son that lives in Florida. It read: “Lakers won the finals.” It didn’t even matter to me that he sent it at 11:21 CST, well past his bed time. I just sat back, smiled, and thought to myself, “Congrats, Bean. Mission accomplished.”

Later that day as I read the comments on SLAMonline regarding the Lakers winning the championship, not surprisingly, people still found reasons to not give Kobe his due. It’s all good though, he’s always going to be held to impossible standards that no one can live up to anyway.

So whether you feel his teammates bailing him out in Game 7 (after he’s bailed them out so many times already) is evidence of how bad he really sucks, or if grabbing 15 rebounds was less important to you than his six for who-really-cares shooting numbers, it doesn’t matter. It’s in the books now. Kobe Bryant, five-time NBA Champion.

Hate on, haters.

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  • vanillagorrila

    I can’t wait till bron loses his athleticism and his poorly rounded basketball skills come into the spotlight. He just does not have a game with much longevity.

  • james

    t-money basically just got ether’d

  • wewanttacos

    great read! cheers bryan!

    hate! hate! hate! hate! lol

  • http://slamonline.com JL

    it’s hard to hate on lebron if he wasn’t so aloof. look at the party they threw for him in akron. 8k people, and he doesn’t show up until after it’s over. either you go or you don’t. don’t go after it’s over! basically you’re still dissing the crowd. what’s he so afraid of? does going to the meet mean that he is signing? of course not. he can sign the same deal with any team out there that has cap space, so he could go anywhere he wants. honestly he knows where he is going, since he knows all the inside pros and cons. but he just enjoying the exposure.

  • Exiled Zebra

    ‘It doesnt matter to me if someone liks kobe or not as long as blah blah blah. Funny how in the same sentence, you say that one thing doesnt matter, then explain how it does matter to you.

  • http://slamonline.com Allenp

    Meh. I wanted Boston to get one last ring. I don’t feel like Kobe was vindicated because the only outstanding question after Lebron crapped the bed in Game 5 was whether Kobe deserved to get put on the same level as MJ. That was a resounding “no’ after his shot selection in the first half.
    I think most folks had given Kobe the edge over Lebron after what happened against Boston because of the way Lebron performed, not so much because he lost. At least, that’s how I felt. If Lebron would have gone down to Boston the same way he went down to Orlando, I still would have been willing to consider him better than Kobe. But, when he bascially quit or played horribly and still lost, well that was horrible.
    Honestly, I think Bryan shortchanges Lebron when discussing what he does on the basketball floor. And I think that’s a shame.
    But, it really doesn’t matter that much. Kobe is celebrating, Bron is on vacay and we’re all typing about it.

  • http://slamonline.com Bryan Crawford

    @Allenp…how do I shortchange Bron? I know what he’s capable of out there.

  • Dre

    Congrats on the new baby B.

  • Dre

    Let’s be real, like I have always said Kobe is great but 2 things need to be considered. Ron Artest did his thing the past 2 games and him and Gasol are the reason the Lakers won the last game. There were no late game herioc from him he did not step up and do anything. He took poor shots and had to be snatched out of the game. Anyone that knows one iota about basketball knows that Artest and Gasol saved the day.

    I will restate Kobe is a fantastic player, I give Lebron the very slight edge above him because he is a better basketball player period. They both are fantastic scorers, great defensive players, but Lebron’s court visions just and physical prowess so far exceeds Kobe that it makes him a better player. Is Kobe on a better team? Yes, I mentioned this before, the better players is not always on the better team. How many of us basketball players have lost to a team with players on it that we know and everyone knows we are better then? MJ was considered the best player in the league a good 3 years before he ever won the title. Now Lebron is being held to a different standard, it is a dumb argument. I feel because Kobe and Lebron are so close in talent that people don’t use logic to analyze what teams surround them.

    I agree with Mr. NBA/Mr. Jerry West about the Lebron being the best but in all honesty I don’t believe it’s by enough to make a difference.

  • http://slamonline.com Allenp

    Bryan
    I feel like you don’t think Bron is really that close to Kobe and anybody who thinks he is better is borderline crazy.
    To me, that requires you to shortchange Bron.

  • T-RiLL

    Haha, T-Money is getting owned by Bryan, don’t understand why he even tries! :D And very nice post Kostas, don’t believe many people has seen it that way at all. And Dre you had to have missed Kobe putting the Lakers up by 4 in the last minutes with a key jumpshot over Ray Allen, much like he did in the regular season with the game-winning shot against the Celtics. Not only that but he made clutch free throws to keep the lead for the Lakers. Not only that but he was flying high for those rebounds to make sure he got the possesion for the Lakers. It wasn’t anything flashy but he got it done with the those type of late game heroics.

  • T-RiLL

    And for the record, LeBron James is a good athlete and player, but when it comes to the best player in the NBA, got to be Kobe Bryant…no one is truly that close. I do think LeBron is overrated as a basketball player and his knowledge of the game isn’t nowhere near Kobe’s. The key factor seperating Kobe and LeBron is the Kobe knows how to win. So having said that, I don’t think LeBron is near Kobe as a great basketball player.

  • Dre

    Like I said, better team not a better player Kobe did nothing to help his team win he had his best games in Lakers lost he shot like 20 something percent from the field. Well call me and NBA players legends who think Lebron is better. They have enough since to know that the best player might not be on the best team… that is common sense.

  • Dre

    It is impossible to fake or duplicate what Kobe, Leborn, KD, D. Wade or any of those guys do on the court. To say anyone of those guys are overrated is ignorant. The reason Lebron has teams turning tricks like a prostitute to get him is proof of his value.

  • http://slamonline.com tina

    Saying Kobe did nothing to help his team win is crazy talk. He already acknowleged the fact that his will to win was so bad he forced up alot of bad shots. Kobe had 10 pts in the 4th quarter & 15 rbs as a sg, i wouldn’t call those things doing nothing. You made it sound as if Kobe was just sitting on the bench or he gave up. It’s ok to make points as to why you think Lebron is the better player but lets not get ridiculous here.

  • Dre

    Shooting 5-24 is hurting your team. If you don’t think Artest and Gasol took them out of the fire you need to look up the video.

  • Dre
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  • http://slamonline.com Bryan Crawford

    Dre, preciate the congrats. You seem to be under the impression that just because former players say LeBron is the best in the game, anybody who says different is wrong. You’ve said this to me before. Let me ask you this though, what are they supposed to say? The torch is being passed to LeBron and he is the #1 “product” the League is pushing. These guys are “company men.” They’re not going to jeopardize themselves or their standing with the League by saying anything to the contrary. Just smoke that one over. Secondly, you either don’t care for Kobe or you’re just that big of a LeBron fan by saying Kob didn’t contribute anything in Game 7. Nothing? Really? I guess 15 boards counts for nil. Besides, if it wasn’t for Kobe, there would’ve been no Game 7 for LA. You did see Game 6, right? His teammates are pro’s just like he is and they have to earn their paychecks just like he does. You’re trying to make an argument against him because he didn’t shoot the ball well. Big deal. As I pointed out to T-Money, Bron shot 8-21 in Game 6 (and as a point of reference, he shot 3-14 in Game 5) but because you guys think he’s the best in the game, he gets a pass for shooting poorly. Unfortunately homie, you’re one of those people I talked about in this article. Somebody who’ll come down hard on Kobe but who’ll give LeBron a pass and make excuse after excuse for him no matter what he does. Also, since you threw out how bad his squad supposedly was this year, I offer this…everyone seems to forget that LeBron went to the NBA Finals with far less talent than he had around him this season. That’s just a ridiculous argument…no disrespect though, you still my dude.

  • http://slamonline.com Bryan Crawford

    Allenp, I ranked Bron behind Kobe who I ranked behind MJ, did I not? I gave Bron his, but I can’t say with good conscious that he is better than Kobe when Kob has led his team to three consecutive NBA Finals and LeBron has been knocked out of the playoffs three consecutive years. Stats are overrated and people put way too much value in them. Stats can lead people to make incorrect assumptions. The only thing that counts in my opinion is the end result.

  • http://myspace.com/circasurvive Btryan

    I like how Jamison all of a sudden sucks and Bron has no teammates when he loses but when Kobe wins its because of his superior team. Jamison never played poorly in the playoffs. It’s time to start looking at “Lebron makes his teammates so much better” as a myth. Tmoney when are you going to realize that NO ONE respects you or ever agrees with your opinions? You have no clue about basketball at all and my only assumption is that you only come here to stir sh*t up. No one of relevance has ever come to your defense or agreed with you. You come here and trash all the writers and act like you’re above everyone and know more than everyone. I’d like to see you write an article , seriously. Let’s see it. Put your knowledge to the test and prove yourself. Write something more interesting and better than all the writers you trash, and if you can’t, shut the f*ck up. We all know you can’t so I guess this isn’t really a challenge, but honestly I’m just so sick of your bull, and I can’t speak for everyone but I’m going to go out on a limb and assume MOST of them are sick of you also. I can’t think of one valid thing you have ever contributed to any conversation. Your knowledge is all stat based which is obviously not enough. And even your knowledge of that is very limited. The player you know most about is Lebron and your opinion is so skewed for him no one can ever take you seriously. Please do yourself a favor , head over to Dime, it’s obviously where you belong, slam is too f*cking real for you.

  • Dre

    I’m not under that assumption B, just that the thought isn’t as crazy at you think it is.

  • http://myspace.com/circasurvive Btryan

    why am I awaiting moderation?

  • http://myspace.com/circasurvive Bryan

    Damn I spelled my own name wrong?

  • http://myspace.com/circasurvive Bryan

    I like how Jamison all of a sudden sucks and Bron has no teammates when he loses but when Kobe wins its because of his superior team. Jamison never played poorly in the playoffs. It’s time to start looking at “Lebron makes his teammates so much better” as a myth. Tmoney when are you going to realize that NO ONE respects you or ever agrees with your opinions? You have no clue about basketball at all and my only assumption is that you only come here to stir sh*t up. No one of relevance has ever come to your defense or agreed with you. You come here and trash all the writers and act like you’re above everyone and know more than everyone. I’d like to see you write an article , seriously. Let’s see it. Put your knowledge to the test and prove yourself. Write something more interesting and better than all the writers you trash, and if you can’t, shut the f*ck up. We all know you can’t so I guess this isn’t really a challenge, but honestly I’m just so sick of your bull, and I can’t speak for everyone but I’m going to go out on a limb and assume MOST of them are sick of you also. I can’t think of one valid thing you have ever contributed to any conversation. Your knowledge is all stat based which is obviously not enough. And even your knowledge of that is very limited. The player you know most about is Lebron and your opinion is so skewed for him no one can ever take you seriously. Please do yourself a favor , head over to Dime, it’s obviously where you belong, slam is too f*cking real for you

  • Dre

    Bryan, I’m sorry my friend but you are making an assumption. I never gave Lebron a pass for shooting like crap. If you cannot not show me a post that I said that I must ask you not to put words in my mouth. Just cause you pour syrup on stuff don’t make it pancakes and just cause you put it in an article don’t make it true. So that means Robery Horry is greater than Jordan because he has 7 titles by your logic. Stats are overrated when they don’t fit people equations. Men, lie, women lie, numbers don’t. Kobe has 5 titles he has a better team. Lebron has better consistent stats in almost every major category, scoring, rebounds, and assists. He is a better player, I gave Kobe mad props but I have my opinion and you have yours. I started cracking up B when you called them company men. LOL!!! Why cause they don’t agree with you big dog? Come on man… that’s not fair. There are plenty of player and ex-players who think Kobe is better, are they company men too bro? That was funny as hell though bro. Congrats again bro… and I know u ain’t getting no sleep.

  • Dre

    Jamison doesn’t suck B he is a friend of mine. He just doesn’t necessarily have a good to game like Gasol, Artest, and Odom.

  • Dre

    I meant go to game B.

  • http://myspace.com/circasurvive Bryan

    Dre, I’m a different B.

  • Dre

    T-Money, I agree that Lebron is the better player on a worse team. Hopefully u and B can disagree like me and him and still have a great time chatting.

  • Dre
  • Dre

    Oh Ok

  • T-RiLL

    Hey Bryan and all Kobe and Lakers supporters, you should all also read an articel on http://www.silverscreenandroll.com titled ‘Kobe Bryant’s Game 7 in Perspective’ by Josh Tucker! Another amazing article!

  • http://slamonline.com Bryan Crawford

    Dre, that team thing is such a weak argument. The Cavs had 5 All-STARS on their roster in the playoffs (Bron, Big Z, Shaq, Mo Williams, Antawn Jamison), Boston had 4 (Rondo, Allen, Pierce, Garnett), and the Lakers had 2 (Kobe, Pau). You’re just an apologist, Dre.

  • Dre

    A week argument, Big Z is not an All-Star… dude Shaq is 100, Twan is can’t create his own shot and Mo is scared to death. You are the only one who supposedly knows about basketball saying that. Even people who believe Kobe is better is not crazy enough to try to argument. Dude you r trying to downplay Artest and Odom. You should be ashamed man… u r losing creds now. Come one keep real bro. I will chalk it up to lack of sleep with the new baby bro.

  • Dre

    Bro… r u trying to be the Skip Bayless of the Slam World… trying to be controversial just for the sake of being controversial? Lol! U know u my dog!

  • Dre

    “that argument”

  • http://slamonline.com tina

    Big Z, 100 year old Shaq, useless Twan, & Mo scared helped the Cavs get the best record in the league this year. Lebron is great but he can’t do it alone.

  • Ronald

    Co-sign Bryan: I get annoyed how everyone predicted ‘Bron was going to get his first chip this year and last year. How he’s the best player on the best team, until they lose. The trades put them over the top, etc, etc, etc. Then it’s Lebron doesn’t have a support cast, the only reason they won 60+ games was solely because of Lebron. Honestly, if there was any evidence that the team was quiet stacked, Round 1 against the Bulls was enough. The Bulls (supposedly an up and coming team who gave Boston (-KG) fits last year was dominated on sheer talent alone. There were basically 4-5 mismatches permanently on the court. The Cavs 2nd unit outmatched the Bulls 1st unit. Yet, everyone says that the Bulls are a perfect match because they have the talent despite the fact Cavs had much better talent.

  • Ronald

    And the arguments that people use to diminish the Cavs team? Can be used against the Lakers. See the following. Fish is slow and old and gets abused by faster/bigger guards. (Also a flopper, everyone hates a flopper). Artest has as much offense as a boulder. And is certificable crazy. Odom is scared, like Mo (I don’t even think Odom played in an All-star game, which Mo has). Bynum is made of out cellotape and straw. Gasol is soft. (See. http://www.slamonline.com/online/nba/2010/06/pau-gasol-faltering-under-pressure/ I wonder if the same people that said Gasol deserves MVP agreed with this article). The bench is useless. Sasha-Farmar-Brown? (Seriously?)

  • http://www.slamonline.com J

    bryan crawford: congrats on your second championship (your daughter)..

  • http://www.slamonline.com J

    oh, again i don’t give a pass on LeBron’s “quitter” game against boston. that was pure SH*T we all know that… but Kobe’s TEAMMATES is a lot better that Lebron’s. DON’T EVEN TRY TO DENY THAT. those are facts that uses only the eyes to be believed. seriously, Z and Antawn are former 2 time all stars but are they even better than Pau combined? or even ron artest? is Shaq better than pau? or odom? or bynum at this point of their careers? 60 wins don’t equals championships. now that your team won and our cavs lost means your genius here and we suck? cmon man what do you expect us to say? we won 60, have depth, have a good players and Lebron. do you expect us to say that “were still mediocre?” WE DO THE SAME EXACT THING YOU DO, AND THAT’S TO PREDICT! and if your a fan it adds hope to your prediction. just because cavs lost and lakers won doesnt mean you knew it all along. it just makes your prediction good. would i think that our cavs can beat the lakers if they have faced in the finals? SURE DO. what do you expect us to do? but i won’t deny at that point the capabilities of the opposing team and their superiority in terms of talent.

  • Dre

    Tina, Shaq is old and 325+ that’s a lot of mileage… and no matter how u say it Z is old. Twan has always got the majority of his points on rebounds and running the floor. A much better version of Anderson Varajio. Mo, would be a perfect fit for the Mavs… disappear in the playoffs.

  • Dre

    I agree Tina he can’t do it alone.

  • Dre

    Ronald, what are you talking about Artest has a career average of 15.5 pts a game. He got his points off of plays actually set up and drawn for him. He averaged 20 pts with Sac and 24 pts with Ind, 17 pts with the Rockets. He has never been on a fastbreak team so that means he got his points off of offensive sets.

  • http://slamonline.com Bryan Crawford

    J…I did know it all along and I even said so way back in August, before the Antawn Jamison trade. I never thought the Cavs were “good enough” to win a championship, but that doesn’t mean that they weren’t “good enough” to get to the Finals because they were. Saying that team was bad is a such a ridiculous cop-out. Anybody that knows basketball would know that talent will get you to the playoffs, but coaching will get you a championship. Cleveland had more than enough talent to compete, they were just poorly coached in the playoffs. Saying guys are old or that they’re scared or that they can’t get their own shot is just patently absurd. When the Cavs crushed everybody during the regular season, I heard none of these things. Nobody was knocking those guys then. In fact, since the apologists here agree with “popular opinion” anyway, the popular opinion after the Big Z/Jamison trade when Big Z was about to return to Cleveland was that they were going to be more dangerous and teams started complaining about the loop hole that brought Z back. So what you and guys like Dre are selling, I’m not buying. The Cavs came up short. It is what it is. They had more talent this time around than when they went to the Finals four years ago. Everybody should just stop with the excuses, please.

  • http://slamonline.com Bryan Crawford

    Oh, I almost forgot. This Cavs team was built to compete against the Magic this year was it not? That said, with better coaching, they were at least good enough to get past Boston because looking at the Cavs roster, the talent was there, even if the popular opinion that you co-sign with says otherwise. Look, I don’t make lame excuses or come up with fanatical theories on this because I don’t have to. I just call it like I see it. Have been since day 1.

  • The Philosopher

    LeBron is the best player in the world.

  • Dre

    It is not a cop-out that they were not good enough. I personally never thought that team was good enough to get past the Magic. I didn’t think Shaq was the answer, I knew Z wasn’t and Twan didn’t have the height. Just because they made some trades u can’t sit back and say, oh see they made trades that means they are better than last year. That isn’t even logical, it was me and a whole lot of other people who didn’t believe in the trades that were mades. Alot of those NBA players that you disregard wasn’t sold on the trade either.

  • Dre

    How is saying guys are old and scared is absurd. That is like saying water is wet is absurd… that doesn’t even make an ounce of sense. They were old, they were scared, like many players have said (talk crap about them all you want they played in the NBA we didn’t they know what goes on there)Lebron has to be a walking triple double for them to be able to compete night in and night out. Kobe can have a bad night and the Lakers can still win. Lebron cannot say that about his team, that is not even a freaking opinion it is a fact.

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