Monday, June 22nd, 2009 at 11:28 am  |  150 responses

Why LeBron’s Ego Deserves a Pass

LeBron James

by Ryne Nelson

Reporters couldn’t find LeBron after Game 6 in Orlando, but paparazzi had no trouble finding LeBron James in the Mediterranean last week. Now don’t get crazy. Don’t jump straight to the comments to banter about how LeBron is feeling himself too much.

LeBron is not humble. But let’s break the hate down to see where it’s coming from: He wears the two-three and a “Chosen 1″ tat. He’s turned chalk into Nike ad campaigns. He speaks in third person. He wasn’t there for his team when it mattered most.

Is all this really a problem? And are LeBron’s laconic reminders, like this “Check my $tats” tee, going too far? Some may see it as blatant egocentrism—”LeBron James Ego Tour Rolls On” as TMZ headlined it—but it’s just part of being a competitor. Sports build arrogance, and when your life is centered around winning and losing, ego is bred and spread. Every great player in history has been full of himself, and it’s lunacy to believe Hall of Fame players come without ego.

Remember this iconic Wilt image? Who doesn’t. How about this book about Michael Jordan’s selfishness and arrogance? Kobe Bryant, possibly the most appreciated basketball player at the moment, was hated for his arrogance from the moment he held a press conference to announce he was going to the L out of high school.

And let’s just say it wasn’t Derek Fisher who was the only one wearing a different tee at the Lakers’ championship parade.

Hating a player’s ego is wack. People always want it both ways. People hate Duncan because he’s too humble. How is KG’s ego all of a sudden too much when he’s been the same player his entire career?

The facts are plain. LeBron is arrogant like all superstar athletes. He doesn’t have a ring yet. But he is the best bball player in the world, and his stats and awards all back him up. No hooper has achieved the individual success LeBron has by age 24.

Of course, you can check some of LeBron’s other “$tats” as well. And $40 million this past year isn’t looking too bad.

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  • larrylegend

    the best…? well, the best paid!

  • Canuck

    It.Is.A.T-Shirt.

  • http://slamonline.com Russ Bengtson

    This reminds me, I have to check my brats.

  • http://www.nba.com JE

    Kobe looks fu(king huge in that parade picture.

  • http://www.slamonline.com Nima Zarrabi

    @ Russ B: Fantastic point about Wilt, dude. Well said. Way to get the discussion rolling, Ryne. Nice work. @ Riggs: You’re right on those shorts. So whack. There are numerous options out there for board shorts/swim trunks. I realize its tougher for a 6-8, 270-pound wildabeast, but come on, bud.

  • http://www.myspace.com/weezyleezy337 weezy f. leezy

    how old is lebron? ..leave the young fella alone…what do u expect. he’s on biggie jayz nas status..the best of his era. the boy got that swagg

  • http://kb24.com Bigi

    Somehow this is all Kobe Bryant’s fault…

  • cassie

    ohhh my god stfu are u serious its just a t-shirt there just hacking on the man bcuz unlike kobe he doesnt have 4 rings so wat hes 24 he got a while to go

  • http://kb24.com Bigi

    And how the h*ll there is no link about Shaq?!?!?!

  • Peter B

    Lebron appears to be feeling very insecure about kobe’s new championship ring, he needs to rewind those final tapes, then he might have the epiphany that star’s usually win chips when they allow their stats to take a hit for the sake of team success. Your stats say ZERO rings lebron.

  • Jacob

    I want that shirt

  • http://www.kb24.com The Seed

    He has an ego, I know Kobe, Jordan, Magic, Zeke had it too. But lets be honest here, how many players do you see wearing dumb shirts, like this one and the LBJ MVP shirt. He is too full of himself and Pride to me will eventually be his downfall. I know people are saying its just a shirt, but you can tell alot about people,by what they say and how they promote themself. Lebron wants this attention, maybe he needs a father figure or something, but to me this is sad, because he is arrogant and who isn’t, but do I wear shirts saying check my paper and Lebron your stats are good, but lets get a ring first, Prince James. Also this article is a joke, stop sucking up to Lebron. Remember Lebron is only 8 spots above Nash on the all time 50 list, so this is to much exposure anyway, for number 42.

  • travis

    as mentioned, fisher also wore that same kobe shirt…also pau, and ariza, among others wore nike shirts that had what looked like a bottle cap that said “carpe diem” on the top of it.

  • Esco

    The Seed really has issues. Everyone wears a dumb shirt once in a while, including yourself I would assume. Kobe isn’t full of himself? Shouldn’t he be proud of his achievements thus far? F*ck it, with his stats I would most probably wear the same thing. And what does LeBron maybe needing a father-figure have to do with him wearing this shirt? And how, in your mind, are you able to find a connection between this t-shirt and his rating on the Slam Top 50? I would guess you have LeBron and Kobe on Google alerts. LeBron for hating, and Kobe for your own private nighttime activities. You, sir, need to GTFOH. It’s a shirt.

  • Statik

    Somehow we all forget Kobe rocked his own NIKE-MADE MVP SHIRT last year…and Jack Nich proudly displayed it on the sidelines. I don’t remember TMZ or anyone else tracking him down to see if he was wearin it and callin him arrogant for it. Guess that means I need to throw out my “Compared to you, I’m Einstein” tee now

  • http://slamonline.com Spaceship Jay

    He’s 24. At 24 with that bball-godlike ability my hands would be constantly occupied. One with a bottle of Cris, and another to guide the Piss. Be easy.. Yeah he gets over jocked sometimes, but he’s on his way to greatness and hasn’t done anything stupendously reckless in his personal life. He looks like he’s on the right track to me.

  • underdog

    Well, bball ain’t all about stats & $. Those won’t make you a legend.

  • j4zzm4n

    dude’s ego is ridiculous.until he wins a ring i don’t care how good he is,arrogance is never a quality,humility is the mark of a great man.a humble superstar now that is the mark of true greatness that goes beyond the sport.

  • http://www.realcavsfans.com Anton

    Does anyone else find it strange to see Jordan doing Hanes commercials after years of inactivity? Someone’s been gambling again…

  • Teddy-the-Bear

    Its a shirt that says “Check the Stats”. Okay. Anybody hear the one about the guy, doing that thing that one time? That thing?

  • zack vank

    The Wilt photo is a flawed comparison. There are interviews with Wilt in which he acknowledges that he was exhausted at the end of the game and wasn’t terribly interested in scoring 100, but the crowd began to sense the possibility and he decided to take a shot at it. I’ve read a couple different lines from him suggesting that, if anything, he was somewhat embarrassed by the occasion; he particularly pointed out that he had to shoot the ball something like sixty times, and that nobody would’ve wanted to play with him.

    Furthermore, to compare him holding up a plain sheet of paper with the number 100 on it immediately following his godlike, record setting game (something, mind you, that is more individually impressive than anything LeBron has ever accomplished) to James cavorting around in self-laudatory t-shirts after a colossal failure in the playoffs is selling short the subtle differences between pride and arrogance.

  • Orlando Green

    Ryan I sure hope you aren’t in charge of this summer’s top 50 players list, cause Kobe is still the best bball player in the world.

  • Orlando Green

    Ryne my bad

  • BostonBaller

    He is young, a part of this generations me first mindset and yes it’s only a shirt and if that’s how he wants to express himself then so be it. The shirt was appropriate for him since he will go for his own Sports Center dunk on a break rather than pass it to a player ahead of him. It’s not like he can wear a championship shirt. The analogies in the story were all off. I “think” everyone who has 4 rings wore one or just Kobe & DFish. The Wilt piece was flat wrong and Russ cleared that up. Jordan was arrogant to a point but he wasn’t self promoting AND his career does speak…loudly. Neither Bird or Magic sought the limelight off court so that too was a shaky piece in the article.

  • Max

    Im truly enjoying this comment section.
    Just a quick question: Could one of you people that have already read lebrons autobiography/biography just quickly tell me how many rings he will win and in which year he will pass jordan as being the best player EVA? I’ve been looking for that book forever, but so far the only one I could find was the one from 2009, when he had 1 mvp trophy and yeah… a whole lot of talent that MIGHT translate into _______ (fill in whatever fits ya)
    Oh I’m sorry, i guess my comment was a little off-topic, i forgot that that the article was about a T-SHIRT!!!

  • Max

    I want to hear what Brendan Haywood thinks about this. Skip Bayless we already know, since his clones seem rampant on this thread (including silly “no daddy” theories and “Prince James” namecalling).

  • Max7

    Looks like there’s more than one Max here. Time for a new handle.

  • BostonBaller

    As far as the NIKE-MADE MVP SHIRT of Kobe’s goes: It was an advertisement from his sponsor that depicted an award he had won. Another bad analogy. Stats is a shirt plenty of guys can wear in their own right. ANTON: great way to try and slide negativity to MJ to justify a shirt. 1 was self promotion and the other I’m sure was pure business (Hanes)There is nothing wrong with James’ shirt and I hope no one freaks if he wears an MVP shirt b/c he was the MVP after all. I hope he and Kobe rock the Nike Puppet shirts an a commercial together.

  • Nbk

    Nike to lebron– “wear this shirt, it’s gonna start a rucus but when it calms down we will release it in stores and you’ll get a cut”
    Lebron — so I’m gettin paid for this. Haters cAn hate ima get paid…. Some mor

    The more you people hate on lebron the more popular he’s gonna be. Hate on

  • http://www.manutd.com Z

    ‘sensitive thugs, ya all need hugs’ he’s on a freaking boat on the côte d’azur with a bunch of his friends wearing a funny tee and some paparazzo takes a snap and it’s a story! how’s the lbj mvp any different than the t-shirts and shoes nike made for kobe’s 81? it’s MARKETING ppl! by the same freaking brand! i’ve said it then and i’m saying it now: wake me up when this dude does something serious. he hasn’t broken any laws or even gone to court (unlike A LOT of his fellow all-stars). i’ll sleep on this.

  • Lee

    With $40mil a year I would expect Bron to wear something nice rather than a shirt his sons could have made. Anyway is Bron becoming a villain of the NBA? What is all this hate for the player everybody wants to play with? I thought people only hated Kobe! And if Bron wins one with Shaq, I hope the whole “can’t win without Shaq” follows him for 7 years.

  • Sarah

    Hall of Fame players can and do come without ego. See: David Robinson. Duncan in the future as well. There is no one way to be. Every time I see Kobe practically watching himself in the camera I can’t help but feel that he grew up thinking that was the way a superstar was supposed to act. But by all means, let’s perpetuate that way of thinking. Furthermore, I don’t care enough about LeBron to be extremely angry about his refusal to shake hands. It’s just wrong. Simple and plain. And even the “G.O.A.T.” would tell you so. From page 52 of his book, For the Love of the Game, “When that happened, when we broke through and swept [the Pistons] four straight in the 1991 Eastern Conference Finals, the leaders of that team showed their true colors. They acted like a bunch of spoiled brats who didn’t get their way. They lost a lot of respect by walking off the floor and not shaking our hands. No one remembers Joe Dumars, John Salley, and Vinnie Johnson coming over and congratulating us after the game. All anyone remembers is their leaders, Isiah Thomas, Bill Laimbeer, and Mark Aguirre, walking right past our bench as the final seconds ticked off. They weren’t sportsmen. They either didn’t understand or didn’t care about sportsmanship. That’s not how the game should be played. You have the obligation to demonstrate good sportsmanship. That’s the American way.”

  • Sarah

    Hall of Fame players can and do come without ego. See: David Robinson. Duncan in the future as well. There is no one way to be. Every time I see Kobe practically watching himself in the camera I can’t help but feel that he grew up thinking that was the way a superstar was supposed to act. But by all means, let’s perpetuate that way of thinking. Furthermore, I don’t care enough about LeBron to be extremely angry about his refusal to shake hands. It’s just wrong. Simple and plain. And even the “G.O.A.T.” would tell you so. From page 52 of his book, For the Love of the Game, “When that happened, when we broke through and swept [the Pistons] four straight in the 1991 Eastern Conference Finals, the leaders of that team showed their true colors. They acted like a bunch of spoiled brats who didn’t get their way. They lost a lot of respect by walking off the floor and not shaking our hands. No one remembers Joe Dumars, John Salley, and Vinnie Johnson coming over and congratulating us after the game. All anyone remembers is their leaders, Isiah Thomas, Bill Laimbeer, and Mark Aguirre, walking right past our bench as the final seconds ticked off. They weren’t sportsmen. They either didn’t understand or didn’t care about sportsmanship. That’s not how the game should be played. You have the obligation to demonstrate good sportsmanship. That’s the American way.”

  • http://slamonline.com Allenp

    I really hope people keep taking shots at Lebron.
    I think it will make him better. It’s time for him to drop the smiles and nice guy facade and get mean as hell. I look forward to what a mean and focused Lebron can do to other players.
    He just needs to get those post moves together.

  • http://slamonline.com B. Long

    People really care about this? I don’t.

  • http://lacuevacrosscountry.com Slick Nick Da Ruler

    Kobe was wearing a LeBron mask in the mediterranean. Hater ass Kobe.

  • Max7

    Sarah, thank you for that lecture. I agree that Lebron should emulate the G.O.A.T.. Therefore, in the future he should wear an American flag to cover the t-shirt when paparazzi approach him. That’s the American way.

  • BostonBaller

    Not really Mr. Long, people like to complain..

  • Los

    to all you kobe lovers. How far would Kobe have gone with the same team as Lebron? Give Lebron the team Kobe has and they don’t lose a single game.

  • Jackie Moon

    To Los: I have no idea how far Kobe would have gone with the same team as Lebron. Maybe the Cavs would win the title? That would be pure speculation. I only know what did happen, in our reality, not some fantasy.

  • Los

    fair enough Jackie, but to anyone who says Lebron hasn’t done anything. Look at the garbage team he has. And unlike Kobe, he “quit” on his team after the game was over. Not during it like Kobe did two years ago.

  • CF98

    I do think if Kobe did this we’d never hear the end of it but at the same time its a shirt and honestly LeBron can wear whatever he wants its not as if a vulgarity is on it.

    No folks don’t hate Tim Duncan he’s too boring to hate. That’s also a reason why he doesn’t get that many endorsements either dude has no personality.

  • that dude

    The problem is in the sentiment of the argument. So because all Hall of Fame players have an ego, we should not have a problem with Lebron’s? Although all of us accept the notion of the ‘ego driven athlete’ and most of us don’t care that much about it, we at least can and should acknowledge that these are unhonorable traits.

  • la huey

    lbj stan here. its good to see more and more haters. it usually means people feel their rooting interests are threatened by his capabilities.

  • http://sjsu.edu davidR

    do people hate manny pacquiao because he’s too humble?

  • Guam

    nobody hates pacquiao

  • Teddy-the-Bear

    What the heck did the Wilt photo have to do with anything? Has LeBron scored 100 points? Not that his shirt matters at all, either.

  • chazz michael michaels

    lebron has a t-shirt that says “check out my ring…. oh wait! thats right i dont have one!”

  • chazz michael michaels

    lebron has a t-shirt that says “check out my ring…. oh wait! thats right i dont have one!”

  • http://ballislife.com Moose

    ^LeBron has a t-shirt that says, “I’m 24 years old, not even in my prime, 7 years younger than Kobe and has never had a good supporting cast”.^

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